Updated: Mar 6
Have you lost hope in finding true love? Have you been thinking that there’s not enough good men out there or love is for other people.
You want to find true love, but you don’t know how. You don’t know where to start.
If someone just told you a step by step plan for finding true love, you would do it.
There is a pathway. The pathway to true love starts with your mustard seed of faith.
The pathway to true love is not exactly a straight path. That’s just how life is. There’s too many factors in looking for love. You know how it is with other things in your life. You have laid out all your plans to the very smallest details. Then, something comes up that you didn’t account for and did not expect. That's how it is with love, too.
Even though the path to love may not be a straight path for you, take heart! There is a pathway to love! And there are clear components to it and if you follow the pathway, you will find love if you truly believe that God has called you to the vocation of marriage.
There is a blueprint for finding true love!
There are many components to finding true love.
The first component of the blueprint to finding true love is belief or faith that true love is for you. If you do not believe that true love is for you, you are not as open to love. When the possibility for love shows up in your life, you may not see it are you may block it from coming it.
When I was single, there were many times I thought that love was not for me. I did not realize it at the time. I became aware of it years later.
A second component to the blueprint to finding true love is prayer. With prayer, you can communicate with God and ask for intercession for your intentions. Ask God for what you desire. He wants to listen to you even though he already knows the desires of your heart. He wants to hear from you. Be like a little child in talking with him. You can use prayer as a foundational tool to help you in figuring out what actions to take in finding a relationship and responding in a dating or courting relationship.
A third component is deeply knowing yourself and your core values. Knowing yourself and your core values will make it easier for you to discern whether someone is right for you or not. When you know your core values, it is easier to see whether a potential partner aligns with you.
A fourth component is being confident and trusting yourself. When you are confident in yourself, you can stand strong. You have strong belief in your worthiness. You truly value yourself and what you can bring in a relationship.
A fifth component is relying on the Holy Spirit and Mother Mary. Mary was the spouse of the Holy Spirit. I believe when you follow the Virgin Mary as a model for your relationships, she will help you find your spouse. Mary will help you find true love.
When there is true love in a relationship, you can see it. For a tree, you can tell the health of a tree by its fruit. The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. ~ Galatians 5: 22-23
There are other components to a successful relationship such as communication skills, managing money, and managing a household.
Though there are many components in a relationship, I believe the five components of finding true love are
1. faith that true love is for you
3. knowing yourself and your core values
4. being confident and trusting yourself and
5. relying on the Holy Spirt and Mother Mary. Keep in mind the fruits of the Holy Spirit, especially Joy.
It took me a long time to find love and later I realized that love was on its way all along for me. Love just might be on the way for you, too.
Now, it is my mission to help Catholic single women shorten the gap between doubting that they’ll ever find true love to poised for faithful and committed love.
Maybe you have an idea of a perfect relationship, but don’t know how to meet people that share your vision. Or perhaps you have tried dating in the past and are discouraged about finding love. Finding love in today’s world can be challenging and it can feel overwhelming. I’ve been there, too. For many years, I wondered if I’d ever get married. I know what it’s like to struggle with dating, being frustrated and not moving forward in relationships.
Did you know that there are things you can be doing to prepare your heart before you find “the one” for you?
I’m here to help. I offer a webinar series called “Find Your Perfect Partner.”
It’s possible. You can find true love. You can start today.
The webinars are designed to start moving you forward in your journey to finding your life partner.
If you’re like me, you have been stuck for a long time and not moving forward in relationships.
It’s time to get moving. Start today.